Halloween trick or treat: Are your teens too old? September 29th, 2009
So, it’s coming up quickly; Halloween. What will you allow your tweens and teens to do this year? Will you allow them to go out door to door “Trick or Treating”? If so will you allow them to go out alone without your supervision? Are they going to a costume party somewhere, and do you know where? Will there be chaperones?
There are many that think that teens should not be going out door to door. But it is difficult to tell how old is too old for this activity. Some teens really get into the spirit of the holiday and want to experience it as long as they can. I’m not here to say teens cannot “trick or treat”, but I implore them to do it safely.
Some communities are now making “trick or treating” against the law with special curfews for teens on Halloween. I could find no special curfews for Halloween in Contra Costa County except for those imposed on who they should be imposed on; sex offenders.
I think the “trick” to Halloween and teens is simply to be aware. Talk to them, do some research in your neighborhood. Do you know where the registered sex offenders are in your neighborhood? It’s pretty easy to find out. The Megan’s Law website has a search tool that lists the address (and sometimes pictures) of every registered sex offender in California. Reading through some of the charges these people have been charged with it is terrifying to know they are in your neighborhoods.
I remember watching “Mean Girls”, and at one point in the show they talked about Halloween as being the chance for all the girls to wear the sexiest lingerie they could, and the “costume” was defined by what type of ears they wore. A quick look at some teen costume websites seem not much better. The costumes for our young woman look like something from Fredrick’s of Hollywood! Maybe I’m too conservative, but my girls will not be caught dead in something like that simply because they’d freeze to death. I know it’s not PC to say so, but I still feel that wearing such a costume is inviting things that we just don’t want our teens to experience. 
So, if you let your teens out alone – take the steps for their safety. Create an itinerary. Map where they will be going, and review Megan’s list in that area. Try to be a little more conservative with costuming, and set a curfew. Halloween can and should be a fun time for everyone – but we all have to do our part.
